No matter what people say, relationships are always complicated.

Communication is so important and the lack of it can cause little problems that can easily turn into bigger one these can eventually put an end to a great relationships.

We’ve all been there before, we pick and fight about the most simple things.  The reason for this is that sometimes the little problems are left aside, they’re not dealt with and they turn into something major.  It takes two to tango and also to make a relationships work, as long as both are willing to put in the time, effort and commitment, any relationship can and  will work.  This does not only mean personal relationships, this can mean work or professional ones as well.

Small issues can easily turn into big issues and these are the things that can quickly ruin relationship.

Some examples of killers of relationships are:

1. Lack of Intimacy: Yes love, companionship, communication, kindness and all those things make a relationship strong, but so does sex. The physical part of a relationship is just as important as the emotional one and therefore it needs to be worked on all just the same. Intimacy and sex are an integral part of a relationship, any problems in this area will lead to tension and anger until the excitement wears off and there is no longer passion or a relationship.

2. Lack of Compromise: Probably the hardest part of being in a relationship is being tolerant and understanding. We’re all human and we don’t all react the same to compromise. In a relationship both people must be willing to compromise and support their partner during hard times and this is never an easy task. We all have peculiarities and these can become an issue, two people cannot coexist unless they find the right balance between being individuals and being part of a couple.

3. Excessive Jealousy: It’s easy to have jealous feelings in a relationship, we have a special connection with someone and anything that attempts to compromise this can send us in a little jealous spin. Now, feelings of control and possession are something different, they’re a whole other level of jealousy! These types of feelings are far from being constructive as they cause lack of trust and a lot of anger. If you’re in a relationship, focus needs to be on letting each other live and enjoy life, demanding too much attention, trying to monitor and/or supervise your better half will just lead to a breakup.

4. Criticizing: Many of us make the silly mistake of being fooled by a new relationship, we go out of our way to make things perfect and to make each other happy. When reality sets in and we stop trying so hard, it begins to create a whole new set of issues. As couples get comfortable with each other they begin to get to know each other’s “true self” and this can lead to criticism. Now be careful, open communication can sometimes be confused with being critical. Criticism can be productive only when it’s constructive and not offensive, there’s a fine line between both. Partners that are excessively critical of each other can easily fall apart.

It’s amazing to see how many relationships are ruined because of small pointless issues that can be easily solved with togetherness, communication and love.

Don’t confuse a small misunderstanding, communicate and cooperate, stay together and be happy.

Author: Ann Brampton


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