Perhaps you have never been married before, or perhaps you have been divorced numerous times. Regardless of your situation, the importance of marriage even today, is still extremely evident. A lot of individuals who live in big cities choose not to get married until older ages, or choose just not to get married at all. A lot of “city” people are not married and seem to be living happy and fulfilling lives. This is great, but I wanted to point out a few things about marriage that should definitely be recognized.
Why Should You Marry?
The simplest explanation to this question is because marriage is the best and most stable environment to raise children in. The children need Yin and Yang growing up to be strong individuals. Without a father and mother prescence it is easy for a child to become succeptable to a lot of negative influences. In addition to the children concern, you are much more likely to be a strongly functioning team than you are an individual functioning on your own accord. Due to the difficulty of today’s world and the competitiveness we find around ourselves, at work, at home, with people around us, etc, having the support of another partner is the best thing that you could possibly have.
Why Should You Not Marry?
Some people will just never be fit for marriage. They are either too selfish or will never be able to commit their lives to another person. There is also the issue of infidelity. The most important aspect in a marriage is trust, and without trust you have nothing. If partners are going to be cheating on one another trust goes out the window, and so does the marriage. If this is going to be going on then it is probably best the cheating individual doesn’t marry, or at least fixes these issues before he goes into a committed relationship.
I believe that if your goal is overall happiness, success, structure, and goals, then marriage is most definitely the best way to go. If you are one of those types that can never make up your mind about anything, has thoughts about multiple partners, has a hard time being trustworthy, and just doesn’t know what they wants, you are best to avoid marriage until you get it together. Hopefully, no matter what the case, we can all eventually be happy.