How can you tell if someone is really your friend?

How many of you have heard stories about supposed friends dissappearing during times of need, or times where their friend really needed them. I bet you have heard a lot of stories like this. This sort of things happens every day. The true color of people really comes out when they are in a difficult situation and you see how people react.

Determining Whether People You Hang Out With Are Your Friends

If you are looking for acceptance, or for people to like you, you might find yourself going places, hanging out in social circles, or doing things which might unknowingly make you very vulnerable and exposed. How many times have you gone to someone’s house, or party only to have the supposed guest who knows you well act like he forgot your name, or doesn’t know who you are. I guarantee this individual is probably talking trash about you behind your back to other people at these events, thus ruining your image and turning others against you.

What To Do When You Find Out the Truth

If you recognize that others are putting you down, disregarding you, or trying to make you look bad the first thing you can do is never put yourself in that sort of situation again. A situation where you are not welcomed, not wanted, not invited. People might not tell you directly but never push yourself into a party, a gathering, or other event. Even though you might eventually be invited, the truth is, it is not appropriate for you to go there and whoever is hosting the event doesn’t really want you there. Don’t put yourself in a bad position from the start.

Special Techniques For Dealing With People Who Disrespect You

As I said before, the best thing you can do is not put yourself in the position in the first place to be disrespected. Here is a really good tip I heard from a long time friend, “Never go to other people’s houses unless you know them really well.” Why is this you ask? You might be used to doing this often, and think it is normal. The problem is, once you go to their house, you are in their territory, putting you at tremendous disadvantage should anything go wrong. The next thing you can do? If you get a bad vibe from someone, or recognize they are being disrespectful, don’t give them the time of day. Calmly walk away from the situation and remember it. Don’t associated with this individual again, all it is going to do is put you in a risky situation. Remember, we wish you the best success, with people, in your personal lives, and with everything you do.

Sincerely,
SeekSuccess President & Founder
Justin W Hansen


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Are the people you hang out with really your friends?4.75Richard Murphy2011-06-24 14:10:47How can you tell if someone is really your friend?
How many of you have heard stories about supposed friends dissappearing during times of need, or t…
Are the people you hang out with really your friends?How can you tell if someone is really your friend?
How many of you have heard stories about supposed friends dissappearing during times of need, or t…