What is flow? Well, it is real simple, flow is the natural act of flowing with whatever is going on around you such that everything is smooth. A secret to life that I have learned is that it is best never having to push it to the limits, but rather to ‘flow’ or adapt to the situation as action is called for. If you are able to ‘flow’ you will make everyone around you happy, and not only that, people will be drawn to you and enjoy your company.
Examples of Flow
One perfect example of flow can be observed when leaving a friend’s house. Do you pick up the signals that someone is tired and wants to go to bed, or that it is time to leave? Or, do you push it to the limits forcing your friend to have to tell you to go? Another example can be seen when talking to a girl you might start to date. Does she respond positively to your presence? Does she act like she enjoys hanging out with you and does she often respond to your phone calls or text messages without much delay? It is these exact signals that can be used and understood to properly flow, instead of countering the situation. Countering a situation by breaking the flow can significantly hinder your goals and cause unspoken static between yourself and others. I would recommend trying to perform proper flow at all times if possible.
How To Accomplish Flow
The best way to accomplish flow is by the understanding that proper observation and reaction is what makes someone intelligent, and worth associating with. If you can pay careful attention to detail, can react with the right moves, and know how to understand others, or your environment, you should be able to flow like an expert and dominate almost all encounters. If a situation feels like it can get out of hand, make sure to stop it before it gets to this point. If something seems good, make it better by making the right moves and exploiting your options.
Results of Proper Flow
From my experiences, what I have seen from flow is success in all areas of life. Friends I have known have gotten the careers of their dreams, girl of their dreams, home of their dreams, or just overall the life of their dreams. A lot of the time failing to achieve success or greatness is caused by a lack of knowledge, it isn’t a purposeful act. There are places in the country where the same bad habits are passed from generation to generation, and no one succeeds because of these patterns. At SeekSuccess, we want you to know that these patterns can be broken for the better, and that there is always possibility for improvement.
Conclusion About Flowing
Flowing effectively is not necessary, but sure makes things easier. There is no reason to interact on a level that causes tension, or any sort of unspoken static in the air. A lot of the times you can avoid an uncomfortable situation simply by understanding what is happening and making the right decision to steer you in the right direction before it is too late. Remember, success is something that can be accomplished and achieved by anyone, you just need to point yourself in the right direction, and make sure you are headed there day by day.